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People fall in love with the “idea,” versus the reality. Having a wife/husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, best-friend or getting married etc., is wonderful but the reality is that, it’s what you make it and that can be positive, negative or both. I’m not saying that falling in love with the idea of something is bad but when you fall in love with the idea and try to change a person, control them and their surroundings, that is when the idea is bad. When we look at social media, we see so many people showcasing their love for another person and as we are looking at those individuals, we might feel out of the loop and lonely and that is when the idea enters into our mindsets and that is when we fall head first with the idea of having someone to call our own or go to the next level with. When we fall head first with the idea and then get someone to call our own, many people try to create a life/relationship that reflects what they see in movies, celebrities, social media etc., and that can break your relationship. Therefore, don’t fall in love with the “idea,” of having a wife/husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, best-friend or getting married etc., just because you’re trying to fit in or prove something to someone because at the end of the day it can and will bite you where it hurts the most and that is in the heart.

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It is crazy how we as humans have this ideal and sense of what we want to be in life. We dream, believe, and talk about such thoughts but we don’t put our all into it.

I woke up this morning with confidence, motivation, and drive. Yes, I have these elements every now and then but this was different. My entire being was one. My mind body and soul was working as an unit than just segments. My eyes became wider, my mind became more open, my body became more in tact and my soul became freer and that is when I became a new person as of today. I am 23 and I came to the conclusion that I want to live my life and be who I was meant to be and by being who I was meant to be, that means I have to put my all into everything I do from here on out and I will not say no as an answer. My dreams will become my reality and I can’t wait to reach that peak.

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